Have you ever felt this? Youāve got a goal, even some motivationābut when the moment comes to start, something invisible holds you back. You want to act, but instead, you end up procrastinating, getting distracted, or overthinking.
Thatās not lazinessāitās something deeper. Itās called accumulated resistance. Itās that uncomfortable mental weight that builds up right before you take action. A mix of discomfort, excuses, tension, and inner pressure.
It feels like hitting a brick wall that separates intention from action. š§± And if you try to break through it by force, youāll just drain your mental energy before youāve even started.

What Builds Up This Wall of Resistance?
- Doubts like āWhat if I fail?ā or āWhat if Iām not ready?ā
- Fear of criticism, failureāor even success
- Low physical or mental energy
- The temptation to do something easier or more enjoyable
- Perfectionism or overwhelm š
Most of the time, this all happens right before you start. But hereās the key: that resistance drops significantly or disappears altogether once you begin. ā
So What Can You Do?
Donāt fight it. Donāt waste your energy smashing through that wall. Instead, jump over it. š¦
Imagine using a long pole to vault over the wallāquickly and effortlessly. That pole is called the starting block. š
Whatās a Starting Block?
Itās a tiny, specific, repeatable action that shifts you into motion. It creates tunnel focusāyou stop thinking about the whole task and concentrate on one small, frictionless move. šÆ
Examples:
- š§½ Cleaning ā putting on rubber gloves
- š» Laptop work ā closing irrelevant tabs and opening the ones you need
- š Studying ā opening your book to the right page
- šļøāāļø Working out ā putting on gym clothes
But Motivation Still Isnāt Action⦠š So Letās Add the linked techniques
Even if you feel ready and have your starting block defined, you still need to make a micro-decision that turns motivation into motion. Thatās where the linking technique comes in.
There are two simple versions of this technique:
1. The 5-Second Now Formula ā±ļø
Use this when you can start right now.
Say to yourself, either out loud or in your mind:
āIām going to [insert your starting block] right now.ā
Then start counting backward:
ā5⦠4⦠3⦠2⦠1ā¦ā
š You must physically begin during the countdown. Get up. Move. Do it.
If you donāt, youāll feel a small sense of discomfortābecause you just broke your word to yourself. Thatās the emotional cue that builds self-discipline.
š Example:
You’re sitting on the couch watching Netflix, but your starting block is “sit at the desk and open my book.”
Say: āIām going to sit at the desk and open my book. 5⦠4⦠3ā¦ā ā start moving.
2. The Future Link Formula š®
Use this when you canāt start right now, but you know when you will.
Say:
āAs soon as I [trigger event], Iāll [starting block].ā
š Example:
āAs soon as I get home from work, Iāll sit at my desk and open my book.ā
No countdown hereājust a clear mental contract for a future trigger. šÆ
Why Does This Work So Well? āļø
Because it links intention to action in a specific, timed, and non-negotiable way.
Youāre not waiting for motivationāyouāre giving your brain clear instructions and a deadline.
Used alone, it helps.
Used together with the starting block, itās magic. āØ
In Summary š
- Resistance is realābut it drops after you start.
- Use a starting block to trick your brain into effortless tunnel focus.
- Use the linking technique to go from āI want toā to āIām doing it.ā
- Combine both to leap over resistance like a pro.
You donāt need to force your way through the wall.
Just jump over it.
