Why we are in partnership, why we want to be with another person?

We want to be happy and supported. We have a hope that other person will realize our needs and understand us. It will be good if we could communicate our needs in the way that other person understand. Love is nothing that is given forever, we need to care about it each day and able to give and communicate what we would appreciate to receive, celebrate small and big achievements together. If we do not realize partner’s needs then the other person will be depressed, unhappy and eventually will try to find these needs satisfaction outside the relationship. That is not surprising and in addition mutually caused. Blaming another person is the way how we want to then justify our lack of understanding and actions. We shouldn’t limit other person but support and appreciate his/her development. The couples who don’t have clear goals and visions and mutual understanding don’t last.

The power couple model gives a sense of security and space for joint and individual development of both partners. Together they are more stronger and powerful. One supports the other in being himself, it does not limit him/her. They both know what they want in life and they’re willing to help each other to get there. Everyone works on their emotions and behaviors, knowing that he/she is responsible for them.

She does not look for a knight on a white horse or a hero in him. He does not need a princess…They build trust, strength, conscious communication. Such relationship stimulates one’s own actions to achieve much more being together. Partners in power couple are more productive, motivated and creative. They have greater attitude towards empathy, emotion control, positive thinking, developing gratitude  and being thankful to the partner.

Be honest and faithful

Your insecurities, your worries, your failures, your weaknesses. Let it out and don’t hold back. Honesty will help you be your true, authentic selves. And the only way you’re going to reach the heights you’re aiming for is if you can be who you really are. It’s only by revealing your deepest insecurities that you’ll be able to protect each other through the dark times and rise the ladder of success together.

The power couple understand each other’s goals and dreams and don’t hide any insecurities and fears. They’re each other’s biggest fans, supporting one another through thick and thin. They motivate each other to reach their potential. They’re in love with each other, but they don’t “need” each other to survive. They’re perfectly okay spending time apart, because they know it’ll be even more special when they meet again.

They’re both optimistic. Their attitude pushes them through tough times together. When one of them is dealing with challenges, the other one helps them look on the bright side and see the best in every situation. This is what helps them succeed even when it feels like there’s no way out.

Does the relationship take more energy than it gives?

Trust comes from a sense of internal comfort. It emerges from within rather than as a result of trying to control everything your partner does. If you don’t trust your partner on some fundamental level, you’ve got some work to do for yourself. If you think it’s fine to jump on your partner’s phone the minute they exit the room, and if you’ve ever looked at your partner’s phone without their consent, you are getting time to exit.

Growth is obviously something we want from being with someone. But if your partner isn’t who you want him/her to be today, you’re not in the right relationship. Sure, people change and grow over their lives, but you’re going to ruin your partner’s if your happiness is contingent on them changing. If the price of being in your relationship means you can’t be who you truly are, that’s too high a price. The relationships should help you grow into the best version of yourself. If yours makes you feel like you’re playing a role instead of playing yourself, it’s time to jump a ship.

Some folks boost our energy reserves. Others drain us dry. In reality, we each have choices

We’re constantly looking for ways to find harmony on our plates, in our bodies and throughout our lives. It’s often more comfortable to stay in the broken places rather than risk the glorious (and terrifying) unknown. There are countless rational excuses that keep us stuck. One of my favorites: timing. This is the worst time to make a change. I’m too busy, too tired, too broke, too needy, too depressed, too not-enough. There’s another side to this story— the one that takes your well-being into account. Is it ever a good time to stuff your feelings and soldier on? To exhaust yourself mentally and physically? Is it ever a good time to operate from a place of shame or guilt? Or, continually repeat the same behavior that created the problems in the first place? Habitually attempting to fix the unfixable is crazy-making.

It is good to honor your uniqueness, listen to your heart, know and be loyal to yourself and be brave in order to find yourself and a power couple model, person, who would like to know your expectations, realize your needs and supports you in achieving joint and individual goals.

If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have no love, I am only a ringing gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have absolute faith so as to move mountains, but have no love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and exult in the surrender of my body, but have no love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no account of wrongs.  Love takes no pleasure in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.